Reducing Society's Dilemma to the Ultimate Basic Fundamental truth..
The ultimate truth cannot be " figured out " by the human mind ..it must be observed through the Human consciousness.. when you can see this and experience you can accept this at an extraordinary elevated level of consciousness... a deeper dimension of understanding..This can only be achieved through a deep feeling process..to reach the core of our beginnings
The problem with society is the focus of the intellectual development of our children and placing a less,incorrect or no attention at all to the emotional development of our children...
Many commonly acceptable ways of parenting are not only completely wrong, but devastating and disrespectful to the innocent child ! The emotional development of our children is not only more significant but also naturally occurs prior to the normal cycle of beginning the intellectual development ... from birth to three years old... that's all it really takes folks... with a significant ..most important part of simply the first 18 months of infancy...
By paying attention to the significant and extremely demanding needs of the infant for attention, nurturing and simply being there constantly.. will create a strong basic fundamental and extremely healthy emotional foundation...
The only part of the whole situation which is complicated is the significant ignorance of many truths...that are blocked by the horrific conditions of the human mind that unfortunately corrupted not only by the existing state of the average psyche but are also blocked through various traditions, cultural beliefs and religious upbringing...
The core origin of all of the dysfunctional characteristics of the Human behavior can be traced to our emotional beginnings.. all of the human crime,relationship struggles, greed and even the need for dominance by major power players in the world all trickle down to the basic emotional needs never satisfied by the innocent infant...every single infant in the world has been born absolutely perfect and possesses every rightful, natural instinctive wonderful feeling for it's own survival..the problem is when these absolutely wonderful feelings are abused, neglected and corrupted they Metamorphosis into life destroying EMOTIONS....
And the consequences of our ignorance not only effecting our Human experience is now and has been effecting this most incredible magnificent place we call Planet Earth...
The question is .. when is our society as a whole finally get the " message" ?
There needs to be a movement... a monumental movement ...proving beyond any doubt the significance, the origin , the ultimate cure for healthy emotional development...there needs to be a system to get everyone or at least a significant number of our society to " jump in the recovery pool"... and then make it an absolute educational requirement for everyone planning or not even planning to be a parent a mandatory to learn the truth about emotional development.. and even go as far as writing stronger legislation relative to the issue..
There would of course would be a very strong objection to such a movement... but if there was a long term study...proving beyond any doubt whatsoever the ultimate truths along with the projected results .. there would be no question as to the impact and direction we need to take as a society...to make significant changes in our existence and for our Planet to survive..
Chuck Barbarow 2007
www.selfhelprecovery.com
The Accelerated Recovery Process
A Real, Reality Check...
You cannot completely understand or appreciate the significance of a real Recovery until you reach the ultimate depth of your core feelings...primarily very specific Inner parts that have been hiding for years... You can only reach this plateau through deep feeling work..that is the foundation of the real healing process...to accept the uncomfortable experience is to accept YOUR SELF unconditionally...and to re-awaken our experience to new levels of consciousness that will further clear the clutter in the mind..... cbarbarow2007
Everyone needs to be careful as they "listen to" many popular "Gurus" and Authors these days and in the recent past.
Many if not all are JUST SELLING WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR..If they are just using common sense , logic and control ...If what is discussed avoids dealing with uncomfortable feelings then they are just selling everyone an empty hope.
As mentioned before these methods create an illusion that they work, but only on a temporary basis. The Gurus and authors look and appear to have " found it", but are only in a temporary ego high because of their popularity and bank account.
There are "common core issues" among us all and that is the buried emotional trauma of our past thats needs to be processed there is no way around it. And the means as to how the psyche mind is developed with our negative introjects ( that will discussed later ) is also COMMON to us all..
We may have been born to different traditions and cultures and from every corner of the globe. But if you got beat with a belt or if you were frequently ignored as an infant and you live in a village in Russia and I got beat with a yard stick and I'm from a City on the East Coast of the US there is absolutely no difference between us.
The severe ignorance of child emotional development is at the core of society's problems and struggles.
Not until there is a complete understanding and application of this basic fundamental truth there will not be any substantial changes to our society to our civilization's survival.
There needs to be a concrete massive study on the issue once and for all to prove beyond any doubt the significance and ideal standards to raise emotionally healthy children..then there must be specific guidelines , education and even laws to protect the innocense of the child..
The Common Core Issues
revolve around basic principles
that are explored here.
The sooner we accept this reality and roll up our sleeves and get to work the sooner we will find true peace within..
Recovery...
With all of the syndromes, disorders and labels that are used to describe symptoms , these "labels" are a combination of incompetent professionals that really do not have a clue with what they are doing and the pharmaceutical Industry concerned about their profit margin. More and more news is coming out showing how not only ineffective the medications are but also how deadly they are...
When a professional immediately puts a patient on a medication it is nothing less than the similarities of a Parent not knowing how to deal with an out of control child, and they stick a pacifier or food in the child's mouth to shut them up, when in reality ALL THE CHILD WANTS IS TO BE HELD ,LOVED AND NON-CONDITIONALLY ACCEPTED AND ALLOW THEM TO FEEL THEIR INNOCENT NATURAL FEELINGS COMPLETELY!...
What we are all really dealing with are basic dormant feelings ( emotions ) that need to be experienced and integrated in or order to clear and heal PLUS a conscious seperation from our severe negative dysfunctional thought patterns that are a result of the Psychic phenomenon of INTROJECTION..thus stopping our self from REACTION and making our reaction a " CHOICE" !!!
The combination of both is what is contributing to a less than an acceptable quality of our existence. The major cause of failed relationships and crime !
The program outlined here is probably what most people do not want to hear, because it takes a considerable amount of work, concentration and an incredible commitment.. Of course the good news is the combination of phases of this program will result in incredible results..